BY AN ASPIRING FATHER

I have seen many professions in this world. One stands out. It involves loving those dear to you, protecting the community, providing resources to your dependants. Everything that happens, right or wrong, is your responsibility. You stand tall every day and keep pushing, no matter what, to create an impact in the world and serve people smiles. That job is fatherhood.

This piece goes to all fathers and aspiring ones. A man should be either of the above—at least according to me. For I see no higher calling in this world than bearing the title "father." Let it not be mistaken: I am not talking about "child makers." You cannot separate the word father from words like responsibility, selflessness, and kindness. The less you have of the latter, the less of the former you are.

Unlike other esteemed professions, fatherhood isn't awarded upon the attainment of some degree. Neither is there an internship for it. It's a learn-on-the-job profession. That's why there is no single right way to be a father. What I know for sure is that you certainly feel it when you are doing it right.

By now, you realize this is no job that is or will be performed by AI. It is one performed by humans. And like every other human, they too are figuring out life. The same way you don't have a roadmap for life, the same goes for them—and they deserve the patience we all cry for as life ebbs and flows.

I have talked to fathers, and they have spoken of the purposefulness they feel. Life gains meaning. And it worries me when I see young men dodge the idea of fatherhood. The balls to father a successful career, a successful startup—those are the same balls needed to father a child. I know you might be repulsed by the idea of owning one pair of shoes and a favourite leather jacket for years while your money goes elsewhere. But I guess that's part of the job description.